Maybe this is morbid, but I always told myself that I should marry a gal who I would still cherish even if she was a burn victim or became wheelchair bound or lost her limbs. The body shouldn't matter, because we can't control what happens to it. We have some control over our character. That being said, my wife is beautiful and takes care of herself and I am glad for that. No complaints. But I will love her completely even when she's old and grey. I pray we get that many years to be together.