[sheikdetailfeather]

A married friend of mine told me today that women perceive sex as something special in which the woman gives herself and gets closer to the man. But that it is just an act (from his sex drive) for men and seperate from the love established in the relationship otherwise. In other words, love and sex are compartmentalized and although women don't like to hear this, that is the way it is with men. Any comments?

[Woahhs]

Any comments?

I'd say the comment from your married friend is about as concise a description of the situation as you'll get. Of course, the unspoken premise for women is they've given something, so they're owed something.