[Aliska]

The sexual attraction is my first motivation

That's the way it was with me; it's only natural. But it always led to disappointment, not because it didn't end in marriage, but because some other vital elements were lacking.

Yes, I'm past middle age. No, I'm not looking any more. I just like to chat with people sometimes.

[wardaddy]

I understand.

My father in law (widower) just got married again at 76 to a 60 something rather nice lady who'd been divorced for years.

My maternal grandmother did the same in her 60s. Life takes many twists.