[RMDupree]

As long as there is love, DFB, the relationship is worth saving.

I do not believe for a second he is getting it somewhere else or he wouldn't be nagging me! *wink*

He does do a lot of internet surfing in "those" kind of websites though.

[goodnesswins]

LOVE is coming home to be with your kids, after work.
LOVE is helping your wife with the chores.
LOVE is NOT spending a "lot of internet surfing in 'those' kind of websites."

Hate to say it sweetie, but you're starting to sound like what you described your mother to be in a previous post....you do everything....and then.....? Just my observations from your posts....Good luck. YOU deserve better. You don't sound like the evil beeaaiitchh some women seem to want to be. Just sounds like original family issues are playing out....IMHO....:>)

[malakhi]

As long as there is love, DFB, the relationship is worth saving.

And as long as there are minor children in the picture, it is worth the effort. Short of something serious like abuse, kids have a right to have both a mom and a dad. It is up to the parents to make it work.

[wardaddy]

He does do a lot of internet surfing in "those" kind of websites though.

All men look at naked girls given the chance...sort of like dabbing the icing off a cake if no one's looking. Even near death, my own father was appreciative of the comely appearances of my then administrative assistant and his nurses. It's just how we tick....we're pretty damned visual not to say we are total dogs. Now...if it's obsessive and really all gets into all that lurid chat room stuff I've heard about or if it's a means to an end as in behavior that should be directed at you....then it's gone beyond normal and into the trouble area. A naked or nearly naked girl walks by me on a beach...the only way I'm not noticing is if I'm blind.