[Lorianne]

I think this is an important point that gets overlooked. There are some people who just don't like sex. That's their sexuality, asexual. Just like a person is heterosexual or homosexual, some are asexual (and not only women). That is the sexuality they are comfortable with.

One thing I wonder about is the people who complain about not getting enough sex did they not notice the lack of sexual desire before? I mean, even if you have sex there has to be some enthusiasm behind it. I think men are especially prone to being blindsided by looks and not paying attention to the warning signs about physical attraction coming the other direction. You can fake sex but its hard to fake real enthusiasm for sex and a real innate sexuality, orgasm etc. I can't say with authority but men are supposedly easy to fool in this regard. This could be part of the problem.

[Woahhs]

I think this is an important point that gets overlooked. There are some people who just don't like sex. That's their sexuality, asexual. Just like a person is heterosexual or homosexual, some are asexual (and not only women). That is the sexuality they are comfortable with.

Agreed. In which case, it is immoral for them to posture in such a way as to invite marriage. Also, some find the idea of sex attractive, while finding the performance distasteful.

[Chemist_Geek]

I think this is an important point that gets overlooked. There are some people who just don't like sex. That's their sexuality, asexual. Just like a person is heterosexual or homosexual, some are asexual (and not only women). That is the sexuality they are comfortable with.

Unfortunately, that's every one of the three women (in 15 years) I've dated... Or is it me..?