Im not sure I am following you on all of this.....--->Have you considered her feelings could use a ding or two? It's not like her "spin" carries the same authority as Moses coming down off the mountain. <--- But we get along great and have a pretty good marriage, just this one issue, and there are alot of folks who would most likely call it my problem. Maybe it is, I know what I like, I know what I dont like. I dont like the excessive poundage on my wife.
we get along great and have a pretty good marriage, just this one issueOf course you get along great...and she's holding that hostage to ignore you on the issue you want addressed. As soon as you say something, out goes peace and tranquility.
My FRiend, this is what a temper tantrum looks like when thrown by an adult. She doesn't want to deal with it "for your sake" and doesn't want to admit her own selfishness, so she makes it impossible for you to approach the subject.
Problem solved...for her.