[papertyger]

this is utterly ridiculous... it's as if they are saying that sex is 90 percent of a marriage..would they divorce their spouse if they became paralyzed and couldn't have sex anymore?

You're missing the point. "Can't" isn't offensive: "won't" is!

[watchin]

bingo.

[goodieD]

One of the most important things in a marriage is diplomacy.. What kind of spouse would come right out and say " I don't want to have sex with you anymore because..." ? If there is a problem, couples need to learn to approach them with tact...not blunt agression.