[Servant of the Nine]

What about a manipulative person who uses sex as a weapon? I have seen this to an unbelievable degree in one of my in-laws.
What about the woman who really isn't interested in sex (and yes, they do exist).
What about the woman who doesn't really care for or respect her husband, regardless of whether he is a decent man or not?

Masturbation, infidelity, divorce, homicide or suicide.

Any of the above is preferable to debasing oneself with sex that is somewhere between rape and necrophillia.

I don't think I could get it up with a woman who wasn't interested, and I wouldn't want to.

So9

[fqued]

Very, very interesting reply.

The problem is that most people in America have the idea that marriage should be for life, and have something like the Christian conception of marriage. To those people, your way(s) of dealing with the situation, and your approach to sex with a reluctant spouse (necrophilia??) is close to anathema. For those people, they must struggle with the situation.