[Hildy]

I'll be honest with you. It's a long, rough road ahead. My brother died when Aaron was five years old. He's thirteen now and a handful. My sister-in-law moved to Massachussetts thinking they had better resources, but she was wrong. I hope your sister has a very good and loving support system.

[davisdoug]

Her husband is retiring after 28 years in the Coast Guard. She has three sons each 7 years apart. (17,10,3). She is a person who has faced adversity and defied all odds. Sorry to hear about your brother. Have your sister in law look into the MIND Institute at UC Davis if she can. Best wishes to Aaron.