I made the same mistake. Finally realized the 1.0 version was critically flawed, and kicked her to the curb. Version 2.0 (when I find her) will probably come from outside the western countries... I refuse to deal with more western (nitwit) women, trying to find a good one among so many faulty examples... I'll go where the odds are a little better.
Be well...
I often think that there are a lot of parallels between a Democratic politician and a harpy ex-wife with a good lawyer. Both seem to believe that their wanting to spend more money is sufficient cause to compel you to provide more, and both have no qualms about using the full force and implicit violence of the law to force you to produce more, regardless of the effect on your life. In return, both reciprocate by giving you angry, confused, depressed, and poorly educated children, and a lifelong distrust of doing well for fear that it will only end up costing you in some painful way that you have not yet anticipated.
As for your comment: don't give up on American women yet. But Eric, you're never going to find a sane one in California.