Impossible, really. : )
Yes, this is one of those areas where science and religion both lead to the same inescapable conclusion. It's simply a case of choice/free will (for the girls) versus the "biological imperative" (for the boys).
So, of course, these adolescent boys are like sitting ducks.
I'm going to be spending some time today with some guys who, like me, went through all this. Maybe I can get some of them to at least try to talk about some of it. Pretty painful stuff, you know. ;-)