The Islam of the last 30 years teaches hate. This hate theology came from the Moslem Brotherhood of Egypt. As they were arrested and oppressed by Naser, they went to Saudi Arabia, and found a firtle ground in the Wahabis sect. The Saudi inspired hate theology theaches its followers to look back to the barbarian tribal desert life of the stone age. If you don't cover your Moraccan wife head to toe with a tent, a la Afghanistan bananastan, you are not living the new-Saudi Islam. You and your wife and many other Moslems can be very civilized peaceful people; however, the dominant majority of Moslem theology of late is hate, and backward chauvinism.
Without having the guts to see that hate for yourself, and reject it out with all your heart, you may be a closet hater yourself.
Example; a palestinian guy converted to Christianity a few month ago, the Hamas guys killed him, and cut his body to pieces. Ask yourself 1)How many Moslems were outraged about such barbaric conduct? 2) How many time did you see a Christian converts to Islam, and get killed by his fellow Christians?
If you can anwer these two questions honestly, you can determin for yourself whether you are a peaceful Moslem, or a reguler hateting Moslem.