With me it has been a dividing of spirit between the new me who never feels apart from Him and is where I (my consciousness) reside - and the old me, the carnal me (the her in my previous posts.) I can see her, spiritually speaking, and she is an annoyance and sometimes goads me into doing or saying things I loathe. But usually I can just rebuke her and she withdraws.
So, in my experience, the new me is never outside of Him. Perhaps I am a weaker person than you and He wishes to keep me here for my protection, or perhaps you have a different job to do, a Paul type job, that requires a strong self-will.
Whatever the reason, I know I am where I am supposed to be, I am exceedingly happy - and I do not doubt that you are also born-again and in service to Him in your own arena.