Reality is not interested in your whims or preferences. Every individual has a philosophy, like it or not, either an explicit one they understand and choose, or the one implicit in every choice and action of their lives, whether they are aware of it or not.
You have a philosophy, whether you prefer to have one or not. If you do not have one by choice, then you have one by default, which is the way most people acquire their philosophies.
Hank