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Why do you write so angrily? Has something or someone hurt you?

I write tersely sometimes and that comes off as angry. I am not. As for someone hurting me? Heck yes. Many times in various ways. Anything from stepping on my toes to cheating on me... but those experiences don't make me angry... only more careful.

You have a valid point about making your "gayness" known in the context of this discussion. For that, I will lower the tone a bit and assume that you keep your private life private in public.

My big problem is not with homosexuals, it is with the activists who try to promote it as normal..even better than normal...noble.

I dislike the term gay. I remember when it meant happy, easy going, joyful... most homosexuals I know or have known were anything but... they were usually neurotic. I think that term was invented by people who know PR and intentionally want to deceive.

As for "monogomous, loving relationships"... sorry, but that is a pile-o-crap. I had a best friend in high school that was very close to me. We were like brothers. We even joined the Navy together and went traveling around many places. We played sports, we got high, we did all sorts of things.. you could say we "love each other like brothers" but you know what?? We never would have even thought about bunging each other. Love has NOTHING to do with sex, hetero or homo. You can live with someone and love them without engaging in perverted sex together and to suggest otherwise is not only wrong, it is deceitful.

What really kicks me about the homo-lobby is that they are telling people who are sick "You aren't sick.. you are different... keep it up... in fact, make it public... make people ACCEPT you... make them accept you and sue them if they don't!!!" They want homosexuality to be normalized for a reason. To justify their own existence, and to create a larger class of potential partners. When a 16 year old "gay" boy is glamorized by the school he attends as a great kid.. because people are trying to be tolerant.. and then he makes a pass at a 14 year old... that kid, who has no clue about sexuality, is a potential victim that might not be able to pull himself out of the pit he is being pulled into.

I have met quite a few homosexuals. EVERY single one that I have known since their youth was not homosexual... they were actively recruited during a time of emotional duress by a homosexual that predated upon them. That is what I have seen over and over again.

Seek treatment. It IS possible. You may think that you are just fine and happy with your life, but you are really walking a path that leads to destruction. Don't trust me on this... search inside. Or, if you ever get the urge to read the Bible, there are some words of wisdom provided in Proverbs 4:10 Listen, my son. Accept what I say and the years of your life will be many. I guide you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered. When you run, you will not stumble. Hold on to instruction. Do not let it go; guard it well for it is your life. Do not set foot on the path of the wicked or walk in the way of evil men. Avoid it. Do not travel on it; turn from it and go on your way....

This section is really clear. Whether you believe in God or not, you must acknowledge that wisdom is valuable. Wisdom is developed over the ages. It is the precursor to common sense. AIDS, STDs of all kinds come from sexual immorality. If one simply abstains from sex until they are in a sanctioned marriage, they will be safe from such things. Adultery, whether within or without a marriage, is just as bad as homosexual behavior. In essence, they are the same thing. You may have a "partner" or even a "life partner" but making a promise before men is NOT making a promise before God. God won't sanction a relationship built upon perversion. Thus, you are bound to fail in a homosexual relationship. Odds are way against you and it has nothing to do with bias or bigotry... it has to do with natural order.

I bet next time, you settle for terse. :)

Excellent post

THANKS Paloma_55 for saying what most of us feel, yet, find ourselves lost for words!

I appreciate your thoughtful reply. (It's so much better than terse!)
Let's say we differ on some major points but agree that certain behaviors (of whatever "orientation") are just wrong, including the seduction of the innocent by adults and other forms of selfish, deliberate cruelty.
As for happy "homos" (not the nicest term), I have never been unhappy or uncomfortable about it & know so many other happy people like me that I wish you could meet some of us.