[mickey mouse]

you just don't know ciji i went to high school with her she was my best friend and i would do anything for her. she's very young and she's been through so much she's lost a child by victor a couple of months earlier. she didn't have anyone to talk to except me she would cry on my shoulder everyday. her and victor broke up after she lost the first baby her name was cazariah she was my god daughter and i loved her just like she was my own and victor made ciji feel like the whole thing was her fault when it wasn't and then she get pregnant by him again. i talked to ciji the day it happen because i spoke to kelton even though I've never seen kelton ciji made sure i had every picture that he took she made sure she sent me one. For her to call me the next day and tell me what victor had done i wanted to walk from Alabama to do something to him but i just told myself that I'll have to let the lord take of him. so don't judge ciji because you don't know her, this is coming from someone who has known ciji renea wright for six (6) years. I guess she thought that victor was someone who loved her but she would tell you if you ever meet her that i didn't want her being with him, because he looked like the type of person who would hurt an innocent baby.

[hellinahandcart]

so don't judge ciji because you don't know her, this is coming from someone who has known ciji renea wright for six (6) years.

[Velveeta]

"The infant managed to crawl toward his mother, Ciji Wright, 19, before his eyes rolled back and he stopped breathing."

Here's hoping your good friend Ciji is in jail, where she belongs, with no chance of crawling anywhere in the near future.

[End Times Sentinel]

            Really?  Because I knew ciji too and she wasn't at all what you describe her to be.  When I knew her she had a compulsive eating disorder and had a waist the size of a tennis court.  She litterally had to be rolled out of bed for her twice a week hosing downs given courtesy of the volunteer firedepartment in her converted mudroom.

            Victor, on the other hand, was a real piece of work. 

            I first came across this pitiful carbon blob in the upper level restroom of Giants stadium. He was incoherently drunk with his urine soaked pants lying in a heap between him and the toilet naked from the waist down.

            “Come and get it fellas” he quietly murmured.  Needless to say, I called security and he was escorted out with a trash bag tied around his waist and his soiled jeans stuffed down his tattered Mark Bavaro jersey.

            “Call me Victor the victorious… call me Victor the victorious…” he wailed. 

            Needless to say, he’s persona non grata at Giants Stadium now. But on the positive side, he’s found a new haunt to watch G Men games, “The Pier” a transgendered/sexual libertarian type bar in an alley in West Hoboken where his bizarre sexual proclivities are looked on with mild interest rather than the mind bending horrific disgust that he received in the Meadowlands.

Owl_Eagle

" WAR IS PEACE
FREEDOM IS SLAVERY
DIVERSITY IS STRENGTH"

[T Minus Four]

"mickey mouse's" shiney new profile page declares: "I'm an ex miami hot girl just looking for a few of my friends who attended miami northwestern home of the bulls in 2001. "

Ahem, mm, listen closely: THEY ARE NOT HERE ON THE FREE REPUBLIC!!!!!!

[cupcakes]

OH it is all about your friend right? There is a dead baby here and like it or not, your friends action or inaction helped seal that baby's fate. I would hope at least if this is just a culmination of bad decisions by a young person, she will start making better judgements--first starting with birth control, next with staying away from losers no matter how much they appeal to her, and finally by getting an education. I'm sure you are of course encouraging her towards becoming more responsible right so this never happens again? Sometimes folks need to hear the things they don't want to hear from their friends. Your friend would do much better without you defending and excusing her poor choices and with you or any other one of her friends laying it out on the line for her. I'm sorry she lost a child, but she needs to be damn sure this never happens again and you all need to be the flame under her arse to help her to that end and not enablers.

[cupcakes]

BTW, just because your friend is nice or had a tough childhood does not mean she is not responsible for her bad decisions. It also is not an excuse for making bad decisions. I know that is what they feed young people like you today that you aren't responsible for yourselves, but that is a load of crap. YOu can overcome bad circumstances. Please, if you want to help your friend, tell her she can overcome her circumstances and do things differently. Tell her she doesn't have to settle for scumbags who say they love her. Tell her she doesn't have to settle for men who beat babies up.