How do you know?
"While I don't think that the government should be making laws involving the actions of consenting adults in the privacy of their own home, I DO believe that society has the right to condemn people's behavior and that the government should not prevent that social condemnation."
Well then we agree. Whatever your personal opinions are about homosexuality, heterosexual sodomy, masturbation, etc., I don't care. When you try to enlist the government to enforce your opinion of consensual adult sex, I draw the line.
"Homos use the old "I was born that way" excuse to tag onto civil rights claims but they have no data to support them."
Nothing is conclusive, but there have been indications that there is some genetic factor.