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To: Qwerty
Poor Girl

You are confused!
What you are experiencing is a loss of paternal identification at a very early age. Sometime when you were very small, you were unable to look up to a father figure with a sense of adoration and desire for his attention. Either he wasn't there, he didn't care, or your mother stepped between you.

You were NOT born that way

Now, you can choose to remain where you are, or you can take the steps that are necessary to realize a fulfilling life.
Sure! you say... fulfilling!! "As if my life isn't fulfilling as a lesbian!..heh heh..er..umm...

Sorry girl. I know a number of lesbians and NONE of them know fulfillment. They try to convince themselves, but they are missing something. No.. not a man. A fulfilling relationship with a man. They can't have today what they couldn't have when they were a little girl. A fulfilling relationship with a man. So they reject it!

The APA did you a big disservice when they let your predecessors take homosexuality off the list. Rather than treating you, they now allow you to live in a world that is never going to reach fulfillment. They have left you in a guilded cage that seems shiny today... but later you will realize there was a huge, wonderful world that you could have had.

I hope that some day you open your eyes and step out of that cage.
175 posted on 04/24/2003 7:20:08 PM PDT by Paloma_55
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To: Paloma_55
"Poor Girl"

That's how I like it. Niiiiiice and patronizing...

"You are confused!"

Thanks for your uninformed opinion.

"What you are experiencing is a loss of paternal identification at a very early age. Sometime when you were very small, you were unable to look up to a father figure with a sense of adoration and desire for his attention."

Are you seriously trying to psychoanalyze a complete stranger?

"Either he wasn't there, he didn't care, or your mother stepped between you."

Don't let me get in the way of your fantasies.

"You were NOT born that way"

You don't know that.

"Now, you can choose to remain where you are, or you can take the steps that are necessary to realize a fulfilling life."

I'm sure you think you're helpful, but you aren't.

"Sure! you say... fulfilling!! "As if my life isn't fulfilling as a lesbian!..heh heh..er..umm..."

Well.. I guess I don't even need to respond since you're happy to carry on an imaginary conversation with an imaginary me.. one complete with an imaginary distant or absent father.

"Sorry girl. I know a number of lesbians and NONE of them know fulfillment."

They must never have tried a fulfilling, patronizing relationship with you.

"They try to convince themselves, but they are missing something. No.. not a man. A fulfilling relationship with a man."

Maybe you're missing out on a fulfilling relationship with a man.

"The APA did you a big disservice when they let your predecessors take homosexuality off the list."

This has been discussed ad nauseum by me on other threads. Suffice it to say, your side lost, is continuing to lose, and will fall further and further behind.

"I hope that some day you open your eyes and step out of that cage."

Yeah, I've been thinking that I'm tired of this apartment too... the management here is awful.

185 posted on 04/24/2003 10:33:24 PM PDT by Qwerty
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