[luckystarmom]

I dated a "frat-boy", and almost married him. There is a certain type of male that joins a fraternity.

I always call Shep on FoxNews a frat-boy. Am I wrong for calling Shep a frat-boy. Frat-boys that I knew were different than the other boys on campus. This was 20 years ago, but they knew about Polo Shirts, the cool sunglasses to wear, and the cool shoes to wear. They were cute, but many of them were full of themselves.

The man I married is definitely not a frat-boy. He doesn't know anything about clothes, and doesn't want to. He was a computer geek. I'm sure some would call that a derogatory term, but I think it is appropriate.

[Buffalo Head]

"There is a certain type of male...."

Perhaps you can grow beyond sterotyping people as "geeks", "N word" or whatever . Until then, when you think of fraternity men; think of John Wayne, Barry Goldwater, George W. Bush, etc.

I'll try to think of you as a lovely, but impaired female.

Regard, Buff