You don't know anything about her, and you are sure she is on welfare and has a "lazy ass". That's really crass.
True, but you can't honestly believe that these women are 'shining examples of honesty and integrity' in their community, can you? I don't believe it for a minute. If they had any shred of honesty this incident wouldn't have headed to the courts.
I follow the old rules, if someone says something that pisses you off, tell them about it, then piss them off. Granted, I've come to blows with some people because if this practice, but that's as far as it got. No court room or sleezy lawyer needed.
Would you bet a $1000 that she is not on welfare, given the evidence presented?