Dating for Conservative Males

toogoodreports ^ | 4/16/03 | Bernard Chapin

[ahadams2]

I went through 9 years as a divorced male - it's a long story and I wont bore you with it other than to say that one thing I discovered after my wife left me is that there are a lot of divorced folks out there who are somewhere out in la-la land as far as both how they relate to God and how they relate to others.

I finally found my wife in the church choir to which she and I both belonged. You can't imagine how many problems that solved immediately for both of us - we married about 10 months later. It can be done!

[Black Agnes]

Actually it's less of a matter of pet issues than one of intellectual honesty. If someone is a leftist they are simply intellectually dishonest. I cannot abide intellectual dishonesty. It's a matter of being able to speak to someone. If they *believe* that socialism is a good thing, I have little use for them in a relationship. If they support a kleptocracy form of government, what does that say for their views on relationship 'material' distributions. Being friends with them is another matter. It's easier to argue politically with someone you aren't emotionally involved with, trust me. Much easier to convert then that way. Since I broke up with mr. clinton/gore sticker he's come to agree that socialism doesn't work, never will and that maybe a 'fetus' is a person after all.

It was easier to find a conservative guy than I'm sure a conservative woman. It never occurred to me to ask before my experience with mr. clinton/gore.

[Frank_2001]

And whatever they've "had", you'll wind up "getting". Ouch!;)

[Kenno]

I liked this article. Number 2 really hit home. I have been blindsided by women's sick ideas of what constitutes normal sex in recent years. By the way, I haven't been a prude in the past: in my USMC days I made a point of hitting on every girl I met. (I'm not saying it was right, I'm just saying it was).

However, I was interested only in women. No men, not ever, not even after my discharge. I don't want to wait outside bars to beat up homosexuals, but I sure as hell don't want to get into the lifestyle, not even once. So, it came to a shock to find out that a woman I was seeing was perfectly OK with her last boyfriend having seen another man on the side. What kind of sick female would go for that? Even without AIDS, it's disgusting. So, frankly, I'm a bit soured on women these days. I'd date women in their thirties, but most of those who are single have mental problems.

[Desdemona]

There are too many conservative beautiful women to date with fear.

So, are you afraid or not?

[longtermmemmory]

buy a harley-davidson. You meet the nicest people.

[SoDak]

I've never been able to hide the fact that I'm conservative for very long, so I don't try. I've actually found that women who see themeselves as intellectuals, even if they are left-wingers, still like someone who will argue with them. A couple of weeks ago I argued about the war with a lady who was a friend of a friend for 3 hours in a lounge. We're talking way left-wing. When we each left she stated that next time, we were going to argue tax policy, and she was buying the beer.

[over3Owithabrain]

Conservative mates rule! My wife, despite a leftist upbringing, is a proud Christian consevative. We can cuddle and watch FoxNews together! Liberal women tend to be loud, bossy, bitchy and slutty, especially the younger ones. Liberal men are effete traitors to their gender.

[TheLion]

Try this link....when you get a little square screen up, let me know and I will "ping" you.

http://www.freerepublic.com/perl/notify?detach=1

[SoDak]

And that can happen, I know a girl who used to be in the College Democrats who married a good friend of mine eventually and was a delegate to the state GOP convention last year.

[supercat]

Anyone want to start a Conservative Dating site?

Well, there's a dating site advertised on Sean Hannity and Rush Limbaugh, which I would expect to have a largely conservative clientelle. I don't know if I should mention it here [don't want to be misconstrued as soliciting for them], but if anyone's curious just freepmail.

[ILBBACH]

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[longtermmemmory]

Perhaps I did not write it clearly. There is nothing to fear in dating. There are plenty of conservative women.

[LittleRedRooster]

If you really want to have success at the Dating Game, leave the politics at home.

This whole article reeks of 'dating for sex' and unless your an idiot that is really pretty easy BUT going ugly early and drinking heavily is the easiest. :)

[Dan from Michigan]

Rule one....Bolt Chicago.

[battlegearboat]

Hanging around FR has sharpened my debating skills somewhat with liberal gals.

It's quite a fight, but sharp and short witty comments sprinkled in amongst their long and loud recitals tend to unnerve and confuse them.

Always do it with a smile and be as gracious as can be to the dear ladies.

[ILBBACH]

in my USMC days

THAT'S how you get a good conservative man...date a MARINE!!!

Gotta love the hair and the "PT"!!

[federalisthokie]

Best possible solution, move down south. Beautiful women that are polite, and intelligent. Women still respect chillvalry here, still go to church, and love conservative MEN not boys!! Look at where the red states are and pack your bags.

[ILBBACH]

try finding conservative Jewish girls...in the NY metro area

Ummm...my advice to you is...MOVE!

Or date a conservative gentile and hope she'll convert?

[Oschisms]

I've never been able to hide the fact that I'm conservative for very long, so I don't try.

And if you try to be something you're not:
1) Her woman's intuition will say, "Stay away from this guy!"
2) You won't respect yourself in the morning.

So yeah, I don't get this article at all. And I live in NYC.