I also have seen much "damage" to others from the bad uses of those specific rules. And they seem endemic. But, there are men's rules too, and they also have their problems. Regards.
Just your reality, you mean. Your earlier post is nothing more than the reflections of a male who made up his mind based on a narrow set of experiences, a propensity for blaming other people for one's own shortcomings, and an unwillingness to head first into the deep end of life. It's a shame that you have this problem with women. Women are wonderful people. They are warm, caring, enterprising, brave, trustworthy, honest, devoted, smart, honorable, resourceful, and willing to sacrifice everything for their families and stand by the ones they love to the death. I know many women like this. I know, I know what you're going to say. But for every bad woman there's at least one good woman. And that is reality. Honor is not a "male" virtue anymore than dishonor is a "woman's" flaw. There are tens of millions of men in this country right now who are happily married, or who at least love women and enjoy having woman friends, and these men aren't wussies, either. (Although there are plenty of wussy men, but I'm not talking about them, I'm talking about real men.) Good women are not hard to find.
All I can say is it's quite sad that you would have this distorted impression of women in general. You're really missing a lot in life.