It is not about surrendering. It is about being a realist. When my father, a good, honest man, who has been happily married for over 20 years, told me in that in this day, in this country that it is not wise for me to get married because of the laws and narcissistic girls (they are not mature enough mentally to be called women) out there, I knew this country was beyond salvaging.
You are old, this is NOT the same country you grew-up in, at least I am sane enought to realize that.
You are old, this is NOT the same country you grew-up in, at least I am sane enought to realize that.You are absolutely correct.
But it doesn't mean you cannot carve out your own good world and even share it with a partner of like attitudes. I'm not doubting that you have a good father, but you definitely could profit from some good long talks with someone(s) with a more positive view of life.