Jesse: and you made me chuckle with your reply. If you've given up on the church of your youth try some of the unaffiliated evangelical Christian ones in your neighborhood or nearby community. They won't require you to join but I'll wager that their singles groups are a lot of fun.
Of course, who am I to be talking? I've been married 16 years and am surrounded by a lovely wife and a bunch of children. But I do see lots of smiles and lots of activities for the middle-aged and elderly at our church.
Good luck!
Thanks, but I haven't given up on the the catholic church, just avoid the liberal ones which seem to be the only ones around me. Thanks again though.