Or touching the right emotional nerve.
Let it drop. I was a big enough person to take the blame for blowing off steam here about a personal issue and not giving enough details. An issue that I would have been best left to FReepmail a couple of individuals who's opinions on the matter at hand I greatly value and who do have more details. I unintentionally drew 'Dru into something that caused hard feelings whereas my intention was to get advice and that is not what transpired. Causing hard feelings between 'Dru and I (or anyone for that matter)was the VERY LAST thing I intended. This will be an issue where dear 'Dru and I will have to disagree, and hopefully if we stay away from discussing this issue he and I can remain FRiends as I value his wisdom greatly on other matters.
Without all the details he was right to make the judgements he did. In re-reading it, he was forewarning me, not accusing me, and I became very defensive and ranted on expotentially, and correctly in 'Dru's words in a "novel of epic proportions", which further inflamed the matter.
FBD was right and very wise in saying, sometimes the hardest thing to hear is that which you don't want to.
Let me just apologize, again, here and now to everyone. It was fully my fault. Now hopefully we can move on and get back to FReeping good tunes and discussing other things.