[iconoclast]

The couples money problems and numerous refinancings

Please return to the real world.

Your post suggests that we may have millions of potential horror stories about to develop.

[PleaseNoMore]

Well, if I am not mistaken, arguments over $$$$ are the major causes of dysfunctional marriages. If these two were in deep financial doo doo then I would suspect that all at home was not the picture perfect scenario that friends have given. Now, granted the friends and relatives may noy have known the financial distress this couple was experiencing, as most people tend to keep this sort of stuff inside their own walls, but I find it hard to believe, especially with Laci's mom being the one who assisted in their refinances. Normally, when working on a mortgage for someone I am privy to all of their financial reports and situations. I am assuming that Laci's mom was privy to theirs.