The people of this country have lied to, cheated, and manipulated by some of the most destructive people America ever bred: Hugh Hefner, Gloria Steinem, Bette Friedan, and their partners in crime.
What was the crime? They persuaded Americans that women would be most happy and fulfilled if we would spread our legs, have sex in the same thoughtless, get-your-rocks-off, uncommitted manner men want (or think they want), abort any babies that resulted, and cohabit instead of insisting on marriage. We were to devote all our energies to our careers instead of nurturing our families. We were to denigrate men and maleness, to marginalize the contributions of men, and to show them that we don't need them. We believed all this. We were very stupid, very weak.
The result, as we all now know, was that a lot of people were encouraged to obsess about themselves, which does not lead to happiness for anybody. Women found themselves lonely, unloved, and bewildered that all that wild sex did not make them happy. The grand career turned out to be not so grand, and certainly didn't offer much satisfaction when the career woman had to face old age alone. Men knew they didn't have to buy the cow, so to speak, but all the free sex didn't make them happy for more than a few hours at a time, either. They were angry, embittered, and filled with contempt toward women--a contempt that is so much in evidence on this website, which is populated with men who seem to despise women. They refuse to marry, and everyone is left lonely and frustrated.
So what's the solution? For this generation, there may not be one. There are some problems for which there is no immediate solution. But as far as I can see, the only solution for the next generations can only come if women acquire some self-respect and PUT THEIR LEGS TOGETHER. Women, you have all GOT to stop putting out for men who offer you dinner or pretend love for an evening! How can you respect yourselves, how can you expect men to cherish, admire, respect, even adore you, if you behave like goats? Why would any man marry if he knows he can get all the free unencumbered sex he wants without having to make any commitment? You can never get a man to love you by giving him sex, and you cannot manipulate him into marriage that way, either.
And as for you men: Nopardons sure has you nailed. What a bunch of whiners have posted on this thread! Listen, you men aren't the only ones who suffer during a divorce. No one walks out of divorce court laughing, and while you complain about how tough you have it, know that the wives you abandoned, or the wives who left you when your behavior became unendurable, have spent their nights of agony too, and now have to struggle to raise your children. If you're not married and you're worried about whether some woman is going to clean you out in court, here's a suggestion: don't marry the sort of woman who would do that. Marry a true lady, a person of emotional strength, deeply-held Christian or Jewish faith, profound integrity, grace, moral and physical courage, sweetness of spirit, and unshakeable virtue. Do not marry a woman because she's cute, or pretty, or fun, or because you like going to the same movies, or because she gives great head. Love someone who is noble, serene, just, and generous. You, of course, must be worthy of this paragon yourself, and apply yourself to becoming so. Whining about how icky church and how uncomfortable the pastor's message is does not indicate that you are either mature, humble, or committed to self-improvement so that you would even be worthy of a fine woman.
We have been fools, ladies and gentlemen. We have believed the most transparent lies of the Left. We have helped those who hate this country and want to destroy our society. The only way to fight them is to become people of such courage and virtue that they cannot stand up to us.
Having been married to the closest thing to " perfect " , for almost 36 years, I missed out on being hornswoggled by lefty garbage. I have a daughter, though, and it's because of the way her father and I brought her up, that she wasn't taken in by today's ridiculous culture and is an intelligent, well educated, happily married Conservative. And no, it was NOT easy for her to find a " good " man , but she did. She knew exactly the type of person she wanted to marry ( she would ask prospective dates, when she was single, what their politics was and if they were Dems, she wouldn't go out with them ! )and was fortunate to find the " RIGHT " one for her.
BTW, to the single guys reading this, my daughter is a fantastic cook, Conservative, interesting, and a lot of fun. This type of girl DOES exist; you just have to be worthy of them.:-)