I don't know of any way to tell. We just try to get to know each other. A lot of FReepers are Military and Military wives. Maybe we can have a New Years Roll Call.
Any Freepers who want to give a here sir. Add anything you like to it. Such as vet , active Military, vet wife, GI wife, daughter, etc.
I haven't been in the Military, but I has a TSSI (Top Secret Specila Intelligence) clearance where I used to work... I'll stop there... :)