And yes, you're all politely ignoring every survey, and every portion of survey, that doesn't "consistently" match your obsessive vice. Your human nature strangles your spiritual nature.
Sounds like neither of you have had a close partner or friend pass away from your risky obsession. Ask the dead whose study proves or disproves that SSAD is a pathology. Dig 'em up and autopsy 'em. This thread could well be about smokers denying the link between nicotine and lung cancer. Vice is vice. You can't take your propaganda with you, much less convince God his commands make you uncomfortable. Clean House.