Ah, yes - those wrinkles in life do happen.
Had an unfortunate one myself, generated by a daughter-in-law and - well, getting her way, as usual - old story, repeated over and over.
Like you - LOL - I stood my hallowed ground..:)))
Think we are less able to put up with nonsense, don't you?
And - are we not entitled to that as 'Venerable Ones?'??