Bad news for all women.
My gynecologist, as well as my mother, who was a public health nurse, told me that the Human Papilloma Virus is transmitted from men to women, usually never affecting the man, but showing up in women as abnormal pap smears, which can lead to cervical cancer. It stands to reason women might have an elevated risk of oral cancer if, well...you know.
It also stands to reason that if that were proven, men would continue to minimize it... because... well... you know...