I've been married for almost nine years now, and I'm very gradually getting the hang of it, sort of like that special-ed kid that was in your gym class back in middle school. For instance, you know that movie, "What Women Want"? I figured I might pick up a tip or two from that when my wife rented it, right? Even if it is just a silly movie. Turns out the title is completely misleading - as far as I could tell, Mel Gibson is mainly "what women want".... Oh general_re, it sounds like as a "special-ed" kid, you are learning quite nicely! Mel Gibson IS what women want! LOL!!!!