We need to work a little harder to change the language. Sex is for reproduction and, hence, a natural part of every sexual creature. When "sexual" activity is performed for purposes other than reproduction it should be called "erotic" activity. As such, homosexual activity is an oxymoron. Only homoerotic activity is possible. And while sex involves mutual commitment to each other and to the possible family that will result, erotic activity is primarily self-focused. This distinction can be made clear if we quit calling it sex when it is clearly erotic.
homoerotic people
erotic movies
premarital erotic behavior
etc.
Shalom.