Example: I am an independent matron of 47 years who STILL has not pierced my ears. Reason: back when I was a teenager and a friend of mine had the bright idea that we should each pierce ONE ear and split the cost of a pair of earrings, my dad stated in no uncertain terms, "Only Italians, Gypsies, and Loose Women pierce their ears!" I see in retrospect that he was exaggerating for effect . . . but it had the desired effect. He also inoculated me against teenage drinking by lauding the virtues of expensive French wine and imported German beer, thus ensuring that I would NEVER drink anything my pals could afford or obtain . . .
. . . I wonder if my dad and Niccolo Machiavelli were separated at birth. I really do.