Been there and done that. Basically it is a waste of energy to attempt to meet you with reason, fact and logic. Your entire position boils down to, if a gang of murderous thugs are given their own "official" state, that this will magically transform them from murderous thugs into something more civilized. It won't work and it never has. This is unrealistic, irrational, and just plain stupid.
The only thing that unilaterally granting the Palestinians an "official state" will accomplish is to inspire them into an even wilder frenzy of triumphalism and a further descent into bloody madness.
Your "questions" are not even the product of serious thought, but the same boring worthless crap that "Electronic Intifada" and other such propaganda outlets churns out.
Didn't you use to post here under the screen name Tex-Oma? Or were you ThreeOfSeven?