To compare right behavior with wrong behavior is ludicrous and disordered. Lets see how it works with other paraphilic pathologies, shall we?
Is this any more disruptive than male mother and female adult son office rats being attracted to one another?
Is this any more disruptive than male man and female sheep office rats being attracted to one another?
Is this any more disruptive than male man and female consenting 12 year old office rats being attracted to one another?
Yep, it works every time.