I had to chuckle when I read this. My kids and I watch Tora! Tora! Tora! every year on Dec. 7th. The kids always want to watch Midway right afterward so they can see the Americans win! (BTW, if you watch them back to back, you'll discover that some of the same action scenes/footage were used in both movies - we have fun picking them out)
That said, I think this movie cancellation is ridiculous. The film is excellent and does a masterful job of presenting both sides of the attack.
If I'm not mistaken, Midway has one scene that shows a Japanese destroyer firing its somewhat U.S.-looking 5" 38 gun mount (complete with the effeciency "E" on the side of it, no less).
I think it was part of the sequence in which Kevin Dobson's squadron was attacking them.
How about showing "Thirty Seconds Over Tokyo", which was before the Battle of Midway and shattered the Japanese belief that their homeland was invincible from attack.
My grandfather's best friend was at Pearl Harbor aboard the USS Nevada and won a Navy Cross. He died a couple years ago. I could hear him now if he could see this story.