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Father files suit after son fails to win MVP award (Waaah f--- Waaah alert)
The Globe and Mail ^ | 11-07-2002 | SHAWNA RICHER

Posted on 11/07/2002 10:18:05 PM PST by flying Elvis

A New Brunswick father is suing the provincial amateur hockey association after his 16-year-old son failed to win the league's most-valuable-player award.

Michael Croteau is seeking $300,000 in psychological and punitive damages from the association. He is also demanding that the MVP trophy be taken from the boy who won it and given to his son, Steven, as well as the league's playmaker award, which was awarded to a different boy. Croteau also wants Steven to be guaranteed a spot on the New Brunswick Canada Winter Games roster.

In an interview yesterday from his home on Lameque Island, N.B., Croteau said Steven was so crushed after losing the New Brunswick Bantam AAA MVP award at a banquet in March that he lost his love for playing hockey. That, his father argues, resulted in Steven failing to pursue the Canada Games tryouts in which he had been excelling.

The league's nine coaches or managers vote for MVP. The voting is not disclosed.

Steven, who plays for the Acadian Peninsula AAA team, stands 5 foot 4 and weighs 119 pounds. His father said he's grown two inches in the past year and two seasons ago was the league's rookie of the year.

Steven led the league this season with 45 goals and 42 assists in 27 games. The league MVP, Lucas Martin who plays for Moncton, had 21 goals and 39 assists, fourth in the league.

"How do you justify that?" Croteau said. "It's quite obvious he's the most valuable forward in the league."

Brian Whitehead, in his fourth season as New Brunswick Amateur Hockey Association executive director, said he could not comment on the specifics of the lawsuit.

"I'm not at liberty to talk about the statement of claim at this time," Whitehead said from his office in Fredericton. "But yes, there is a monetary sum attached to it."

Whitehead, who said he received the suit on Oct. 28, referred the matter to the Canadian Hockey Association. Officials there will advise the New Brunswick body on a course of action. At this point, Whitehead said, the association has not hired a lawyer.

The suit was filed in New Brunswick Provincial Court in Bathurst on Oct. 8. Whitehead said it's not the first time the association has been taken to court, but in every other case the suit involved player injury.

Croteau said his son was "so hurt and damaged" after losing the awards in front of 250 people that night he came home and shoved his hockey equipment into a corner, saying he had no interest in playing again.

"He was so sure of himself he took $50 of his own money to buy a nice shirt and tie to look good that night," he said. "And he was just humiliated."

Whitehead said that when Steven didn't show up for the Canada Games practice two weeks after the banquet, coach Gerry Belliveau asked him to come out to the following one in May.

But Steven declined.

"He did not quit the Canada Games," Croteau said. "He just had to breathe. It's not the trophy, it's that he should have been honoured. I taught him since he learned to skate at three years old that hard work brings rewards. But that didn't happen.

"I'm doing this because all the years I played and coached hockey I saw what good it could bring to your life. I'm doing this for my son. He feels very bad. He did his best. . . . I didn't want to go this far but hopefully it will be an example to others."

One source close to the league who asked not to be identified said, "Steven's name would have been talked about for MVP. But it's like the Miss America pageant. On any given day, anyone that good could win."

This suit comes on the heels of one involving nine-year-old John Bijelic of Mississauga, who is in small-claims court after suing a minor-hockey coach for $10,000, alleging he threatened to "put a bounty on his head."


TOPICS: Canada; Culture/Society; Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: canada; hockey; spoiledchildren

1 posted on 11/07/2002 10:18:06 PM PST by flying Elvis
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To: flying Elvis
Yet another parent trying to live his athletic dreams through a child. What a wonderful lesson to teach his son.
2 posted on 11/07/2002 10:24:10 PM PST by Kaiwen
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To: flying Elvis
I wouldn't want the kid on my team. He might be a good kid for all I know, but his dad is a real jackass.
3 posted on 11/07/2002 10:26:41 PM PST by Dan from Michigan
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To: flying Elvis
Ya know what. This stuff is not funny anymore. The judge should throw this out right after he fines the lawyer that brought the case $25,000 ... and 100 hours of community service.

4 posted on 11/07/2002 10:28:48 PM PST by BJungNan
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To: Dan from Michigan
Yeah, but just for the sake of argument, with his kid's record as compared to the one awarded the MVP, how did that happen and why? Does seem odd, don't you think?
5 posted on 11/07/2002 10:28:59 PM PST by flaglady47
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To: flaglady47
Hockey is a team sport. Maybe the one with the lower stats is a better player stuck on a bad team. Another scenario may be that the kid with the high stats hogs the puck, taking shots when he should pass and not a very good team player. There are quite a few scenarios where someone with lower individual stats may be a better player.
6 posted on 11/07/2002 10:35:15 PM PST by flying Elvis
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To: flaglady47
Sure, but that's life. The kid's father shouldn't take this valuble lesson away from his kid. Life is unfair. Always has been and always will be. The kid will be so much better off if he learns that awards don't mean anything in terms of his real abilities.
7 posted on 11/07/2002 10:37:12 PM PST by pseudogratix
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To: flaglady47
The best player isn't always the highest scorer. Maybe the guy can't play defense? I don't know.
8 posted on 11/07/2002 10:41:10 PM PST by Dan from Michigan
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To: flying Elvis
Maybe the one with the lower stats is a better player stuck on a bad team.

Someone once asked Dale Murphy ( a really good player on a really bad Braves team) once, "How do you feel about not getting the MVP award?"
Murphy said, "I don't deserve it. I'm sure they could have finished last without me."

9 posted on 11/07/2002 11:02:15 PM PST by Izzy Dunne
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To: flying Elvis
I taught him since he learned to skate at three years old that hard work brings rewards. But that didn't happen.

... and what are you teaching him NOW?

10 posted on 11/07/2002 11:03:43 PM PST by Izzy Dunne
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To: Izzy Dunne
Dale Murphy was the first person to come to mind when I read this article. What a classy guy. Not many around like him any more. I have a bat autographed by him hanging behind my desk.
11 posted on 11/07/2002 11:06:11 PM PST by flying Elvis
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To: flying Elvis
after losing the awards in front of 250 people that night he came home and shoved his hockey equipment into a corner, saying he had no interest in playing again.

So hes a quitter, kinda like the kid who never got his way so he took the ball home. Big baby.

"He was so sure of himself he took $50 of his own money to buy a nice shirt and tie to look good that night," he said. "And he was just humiliated."

Awwwww, poor baby. You think hes humilated now....just wait until kids in school make fun of his stupid ass now. Kids can be cruel...but not as cruel as having to live with his moronic father I bet

12 posted on 11/07/2002 11:14:41 PM PST by stuck_in_new_orleans
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To: flying Elvis
I wonder if one of the things that the coaches took into considderation was being a good sport?

If so, we now know why this kid lost!

Mark
13 posted on 11/07/2002 11:30:26 PM PST by MarkL
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