Skip the second job, quit the first and home school. Believe me, you can do it very successfully on a very small shoestring. Look into it. Your state probably has a great homeschool resource place that can get you started. You can also contact Home School Legal Defense Association to get a state contact.
Good Luck.
Well the family expects to eat and have a home too. No work, no shoestring. LOL
In the first 4 weeks they accomplished more than they would have in 2 months in private school, and that was just starting out. There are so many resources out there; there is a lot to choose from.
Best of all, my daughter has adjusted beautifully, she is more relaxed and has more fun, she loves it. She is reading and writing and practicing math all the time, not just during school hours. We are very happy with our decision.