I look for exemplary lives among Christian leaders such as music stars also.
One of my cousins gave tepid explanations for a divorce and that bothered certain people. Her ex-husband seemed like such a nice guy but he had been cheating on her ---with a babysitter. For the sake of her kids and maybe everyone she made a decision not to discuss their problems to everyone. Sometimes a marriage can look perfect but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.