My opinion: She should get her title back, so she can compete in the National contest this next week. Let those judges select others for Miss America, who may prove better qualified. Then...
File charges against the ex-boyfriend for 1.)conspiring to illegally distribute pornographic materials, 2.) Attempted extortion. Cop or no cop, he is a complete slimeball.
THEN....she should sue the ex-boyfriend in civil court for damages to her reputation for his circulation of the pictures without her consent. Since he definitely cost her a state title and any potential national title, there should be proof of loss of income here. I hope she takes him to the cleaners.