[Frumious Bandersnatch]

I would suggest that if no-fault divorce were banned in the states, the situation would change drastically.  That way, divorces could not proceed unless the lack of fidelity was proven, or unless both parties agreed.  In the first case, throw the book at the offending party, in the second case nobody gets anything not agreed to in writing at the time of breakup.

[Don Joe]

"I would suggest that if no-fault divorce were banned in the states, the situation would change drastically."

Not unless the states also refuse to recognize foreign divorces. My mother divorced my father when we lived in NYC, which in the pre-no-fault days had very strict grounds for divorce.

So, she flew to Mexico.