[Khepera]

If I start suggesting that some sexual behaviors are deviant then I might have to ask if my own preferences are deviant. I don't want to ask because I don't want to give them up. Therefore, to protect my own potential perversion I must protect the actual perversions of others.

I would like to point out that the sexual activities you participate in with your husband or wife (as the case may be) are blessed by God and not deviant unless performed outside the bonds of your marriage. Marriage being defined as 1 man and 1 woman. The traditional bond defined by God. Acts outside of that bond are not permitted.

[ArGee]

I would like to point out that the sexual activities you participate in with your husband or wife (as the case may be) are blessed by God and not deviant unless performed outside the bonds of your marriage.

I would generally concur. However, one should never put one's spouse at risk just for the sake of sexual pleasure. That said, I think sodomy would be out as would oral-anal activity. The potential price is too high and the reward is too low.

Shalom.