I should have answered your questions and I'm sorry I didn't. Yes, they are immature adults that have not grown up.. and I've said allthat you've said numerous times about them. They are parents who were victimized by a predator, who was probably a sexual predator. Regardless of their stupidity, if you ignore the conspiracy theories, they WERE ruled out as perpetrators...and therefore, they DESERVE the victim advocate.
Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional.