had you slept with her, a dna test could have cleared it up. this "sleeping around" story obviously happens- just not as much as the adoption agencies want you to think.
and mark, if you had slept with her, would you have wanted to know if the baby was yours or not?
This was one of the most painful experiences of my life. It was someone that I loved and trusted, who told me that she was saving herself for marriage. I honored her beliefs, and we actually spoke about marriage. Months later, I found out that she was having sex with three different guys while we were "dating." I confronted her, and broke off all contact. It was three months later that she had forgotten that we hadn't had sex.
And I was a virgin at that time, and for years afterward...
Mark