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I do think that a large number of young women these days are rather selfish. Many will act as though they can do nothing wrong, and that you're the one that has the problem, all the while you've been a perfect gentleman.

This doesn't describe every young woman, and there are a few out there who are genuinely dignified, and who want a man that will lead.

My suggestion? If you're a Christian, attend a Christian Singles Praise & Worship within your respective city. At some of these gatherings, there are upwards of 1,500 single Christian women, so you have a good chance of meeting a good woman.

Similarly, the club scene, bar scene, etc. is not the place to meet a genuinely good woman. What kind of a good woman hangs out at places like that on a regular basis? I'm talking slim pickings. Those places are loaded with extremely liberal, sex maniac types who will most likely not respect you. Furthermore, a large percentage, perhaps a majority, of them have very little sense of morals and values. If your goal is to marry, why would anyone waste their time and money at grotesque places such as these?

attend a Christian Singles Praise & Worship within your respective city. At some of these gatherings, there are upwards of 1,500 single Christian women, so you have a good chance of meeting a good woman.

Nice try. However --

(1) the "righteous" among them have mostly been brainwashed into "kissing dating goodbye" and are therefore unapproachable unless you're already an intimate part of their social circle (in which case, of course, you'd be 'just friends' -- a catch 22 that keeps many women single permanently) -- and

(2) the hypocrites among them, who are legion, are worse than the unbelievers. Tragically, I found that "a large percentage, perhaps a majority, of them have very little sense of morals and values", even WITHIN the supposedly Bible-believing church world.

and, on the other hand, i advise those women who are pretty much life-long members at said bible meetings to be very wary and skeptical of men who suddenly join; supposedly with new found interest in worship and god.

i naively married two such men and they turned out to be deadbeats, drunkards and wife beaters.