I agree with you to some extent. I am a children's pastor. I work primarily with kids from 7-12.
On occasion, I work exclusively with the 10-12 year olds.
As most know, church attendance is .... um... suspect during the Summer months.
I have rules about student-to-teacher ratios.
A little wisdom and common sense goes a long way.
Let's hear it for common sense! Going the extra mile to make sure that there is no hint of improper behavor will keep you out of a lot of hot water. or to quote
21 Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.
22 Abstain from all appearance of evil.
23 And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
1 Thessalonians 5:21-23
Good advise from 2000 years ago.
a.cricket