These type of posts taking people to task for even reading these threads(which I'll point out you both wasted your valuable time on as well--pottle kettle black)are what is really pathetic. Here is a suggestion...DONT read the Chandra threads--it will leave you with more valuable time to tend to your own affairs and you can pat yourself on the back for being busy with more important things.
Now perhaps I can get back to disciplining some REAL children instead of adults who act like them.