[tiki]

If they don't come out and tell you that they're gay and they really are celibate as far as you know, how in the world do you tell?

I know men who you'd think were gay because they act a little effeminate but they're not! And then I've seen big, macho looking and acting men who are. How do you tell?

To tell the truth, I'm pretty paranoid right now.

[yendu bwam]

If they don't come out and tell you that they're gay and they really are celibate as far as you know, how in the world do you tell?

Not knowing, I won't let my teenage sons be around any priest. And it's not paranoia on my part, just good sense given what the American Catholic Church has allowed.