I have met too many priests who are "gay" - not merely homosexual. (Note the distinction in post 14 above).
The "Dignity" crowd is not about hating their same-sex attraction. They are about embracing their same-sex attraction and celebrating it with "Pride".
Any such "dignity"-type priests/nuns or catechists/theologians/decision-makers/spokemen/representatives of the Church need to be tossed - now.
Church teaching is clear and they are not following - nor do they have any intent to do so. They do not consider their same-sex attraction disordered nor do they wish they were straight. (Whereas an alcoholic wishes he were rid of his disorder).
Well, you know that the Pope doesn't "toss" people out of the Church, with rare exceptions. At this point in his papacy, I doubt he'll start now.
He lets the wheat grow up with the chaff, which may be wise.